Seems like there are alot of little things like bills that should be cleared up. Yeah, you are married legally but haven't been together in awhile. I would call your cel company and put your phone on your own plan. Let W take care of hers. Same with the car insurance and any other bills that are joint. I would simply call her and say it would be much easier in the future if bills were separate. No attitude. Just upbeat and happy. Actually do it over an email. That way you have a record of what you did and she can't complain over the phone. If this is the road W wants to go down, let her figure out some things on her own.

Good on the conversation about tonight. Plans fell through. No need to switch anymore.


Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!