bestrong, I just read about your MIL. I'm so sorry. Hopefully she can overcome it!!! It's okay to just be human and help your WAH right now. (But I don't mean to sound heartless--still go out for Stephens Day. There is balance in life.)
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004