Originally Posted By: cutterbug
They just updated the privacy settings. So your wife and OM have filled out the settings questionarre to the current results.


Cutter I was going to say 'I don't agree with you' after what DBD posted and then BS confirmed you ... DAMN smile

I saw that questionnaire and thought what a waste of time as I just confirmed the settings I already had. In fact I changed one photo album to Everyone as I realised it was Friends Only. So I thought they would have to change it from Friends Only to Everyone manually.

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I know your dark right now but this would be a great time to do a mass snoop. Then pull back.
You can see who their mutual friends are ... ETC....


Why would that matter? Why would I need it?
And just to confirm, W seems to be even darker than me smile

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It will be hard. But it may come into play down the road. As this is a long game were playing.


Anything else I would need from the pages? I will ask IM or D's mum to look and gather the evidence rather than me as I really am no interested in seeing my W and her OM together happy. Not quite strong enough for that stuff yet!

Thanks DBD and BS too. I'm sadly wrong smile Oh well, that's why I asked I suppose.

The other reason I thought they did it was that MIL sent me a card yesterday about my mum. There is only two ways she could have found out, through a colleague at W's work who I told or my Facebook page. So I thought if they had been on my FB page, saw all my pics and Wall and then thought they'd do the same.

Last edited by P17; 12/15/09 09:30 PM.

Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

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