wow. I've never heard of a story like that. Well, it is good that you have been thru it, and you can understand both sides of the story, like I can. I'm sorry that you are now the LBS, but you are the wiser one, and I'm certain you can save yours as well.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."