Thanks H4L,

I agree, that it may be a baby step. Well, more hoping that's what it is.

I dunno. We'll have to wait and see. The good thing is, is this is truly the first time he has owned up to being a jerk, and not just with an apology but with a "reason" for his jerkness...good step I hope.

As long as it has nothing to do with his sister. I dunno. Gnosis recommends not talking to her about it. I have this overwhelming urge to ask if she talked to him? She may not tell me the truth though.


M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14