That's not uncommon.

Mental illness carries a stigma to it; lots of people treat it like a moral failing -- that it's a matter of willpower, or "trying harder", or choosing to think differently.

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."