The continuing saga of P ...

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I have an update today, sort of. I actually have 2 but the other one I haven't dealt with yet so I can't update my thread just yet.

I want opinions on this. I want honest opinions as I'm reading far too much into this, but my gut tells me it's just not coincidence. And, so that those of you can stop reading now who hate it, it's about Facebook

I also expect some 2x4's here for being a prat, but I want to vent about it.

A friend texted me today to say that W has updated her Facebook page. I texted back and said, I don't care. She then came back again and said that maybe it would help for me to move on. So I got curious. But I didn't look at her Facebook page. Then I got even more curious and texted friend back again asking how she got onto it as it was private. Ahh, it's not anymore. W and OM have opened UP their Facebook pages to everybody

For anybody that doesn't know. When you create a Facebook account everything is private so that only your Facebook friends can see it. You have to actually open your pages up for people to see them.

I created a Facebook page about 6 weeks or so ago when I thought it was time for me to do the Social Media thing that everybody talks about. Because I didn't have may friends on it, and because I wanted to tell people how to keep up to date with me and D, I thought I'd make everything open to everybody. So I did, from day 1. So even if they were not on Facebook (like my dad) he could still have a look at the photos and my posts etc.

W and OM's pages have always been private. In fact, W never used her Facebook page, preferring instead to use Bebo (another Facebook type site). In fact her Facebook page said - see my Bebo page.

So, apparently there are lots of pics of OM on W's Facebook pages. Including one of him rolling a cigarette (again, W hates smoking, what is she doing?!?). Friend told me.

The reason I am posting on this and asking this stuff is that I believe W is in a huge huff with me. IM asked her about D's car seat. No response. IM sent her a text last night about the Doctor phoning her for W, no response. W does not 'do' huffs, and I would have expected her to respond to one of those. My guess therefore is she's in a huff. You don't go in a huff with somebody you don't care about.

So, long and short of it. I'm mind reading I know. But is this coincidence that their pages are suddenly open for everybody (which had to be done manually) or not?

Is my friend right in saying that because of the pics on Facebook, she has moved on an no longer holds a 'candle for me' (her words not mine).

I don't think it's a coincidence. I think it's deliberate. Couple it with the huff and I think they are sticking two fingers up at me (remember newmama about that :)). But then I am an LBS and completely bias.

I'm not looking at this as 'oh she wants me back'. I'm actually looking at this like 'I've got to her - she's mad at me - the shoe is on the other foot now'.

And just to clarify, I haven't been near either of their Facebook pages since I created my own. That is my boundary as I don't want to know what they are up to.

Update number 2 is something I will post about later.