Ran into WAS and OW

[Arwen_in_NJ]

Hey P- Long time!

What sort of mediation is this?

This is a session before a neutral 3rd party to try to come to agreement on division of assets, support, etc. rather than going straight to trial.

Why does she need to talk? If she feels awkward then surely that's something for her conscience to deal with? Maybe I misunderstand that bit.

I don't know why she needs to talk. I agree- if she feels awkward, it's most likely her conscience speaking up. Perhaps she thinks I was following them or something.... although I was in the shopping center before she was, I think. I guess I'll know when we talk.

It' her that needs to talk. I'd listen, validate and that's it. I wouldn't say much.

Sounds like a plan.