They are basically the same thing. Let go and let God. Detach and let God. Create your life to be the best it can be without your H and let God do the work on your H. You can still love and care about your H and hope he comes back, but don't make your own happiness reliant on whether he does or not. Don't stop your life because he isn't in it right now.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...