Hey guys, I just had one of those moments where things kind of come into focus.....Ex just called and was in a huge argument with her dad over some money owed to her for a fund raiser my sons did for the baseball team......His new wife said they did not owe the money and it went downhill from there......
She called me in tears and just wanted to vent.....I listened and when she asked me what I thought, I told her.....Huge 180 for me because I usually made her feel she was not handling things correctly and would always tell her what i would do....It hit me a while ago that she did not really want my opinion, just someone to listen to her....Ding..Light bulb moment...
It also hit me that there were alot of people she could have called, but she called me.....You know we may work things out and we may not, but it was really nice just listening to her and having her thank me for letting her vent....That's what friends do and if anything is ever going to come of this, we will have to be friends first....Something I should have been to her a long time ago.....
Yes, I am pretty sure she will see OM again and it will hurt, but as her friend all i can do is be there when and if she needs me....I hope I can continue to feel this positive about things and not get as down as I have been the last few days....I guess what I am trying to say is the only way to get her back is to have her realize that she left her best friend.....Then and only then can we move foward....
