I would never do that - abandoning him I mean - it's good that his brother is home too just now - he lives in Australia and is home for the first time in 2 years - my husband is flying in next Tuesday.
bestrong, I just read about your MIL. I'm so sorry. Hopefully she can overcome it!!! It's okay to just be human and help your WAH right now. (But I don't mean to sound heartless--still go out for Stephens Day. There is balance in life.)
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
Sorry to hear that about MIL. I just got the news my dad has cancer yesterday. I miss having my WAS to be there for me. It feels like everything is coming down at once. Just makes things harder.
I can see you will be there for your WAS. I hope he will accept your support.
M40, H39 M17 T20 D13, S12 H moved out 05/09 D filed 1/10
I am so sorry Day by Day - I haven't really digested the news yet. I told him to call me if he needs to talk and I think I will drop X-Mas day in our house - he should be home with his mom - I have no information at this stage how bad it is - just that she will be operated on Friday which is pretty fast.My husband was worried that the speed of the operation is a bad sign.
Are you close with your MIL? I know that news like that about my MIL would be hard for me as I care for mine a lot. Will you go visit her? I'd want mine to know that I am concerned for her besides the sitch with WAH.
M40, H39 M17 T20 D13, S12 H moved out 05/09 D filed 1/10
I am so sorry Day by Day - I haven't really digested the news yet. I told him to call me if he needs to talk and I think I will drop X-Mas day in our house - he should be home with his mom - I have no information at this stage how bad it is - just that she will be operated on Friday which is pretty fast.My husband was worried that the speed of the operation is a bad sign.
The speed of the operation is the exact opposite of that. The fact they are moving so fast is a good sign. They move really fast these days when they see stuff like this. My mum got an extra 10 years because they operated so quickly.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
The speed of the operation is the exact opposite of that. The fact they are moving so fast is a good sign. They move really fast these days when they see stuff like this. My mum got an extra 10 years because they operated so quickly.
Oh that's good so I am close enough to my MIl I would say - she was the only one(with FIL) who actually cared after we split up - and she is great with the kids.
I miss having my WAS to be there for me. It feels like everything is coming down at once. Just makes things harder.
I am close enough to my MIl I would say - she was the only one(with FIL) who actually cared after we split up - and she is great with the kids.