T I'm right behind you. My XHs new house (according to D14) smells of old people! It was empty for a while too (not sure how long) and when they first moved in none of the radiators worked. It was particularly cold here that week.
My mother asked D14 if she liked her new bedroom and was told it needed a lot doing to it. My mother said 'I'm sure your Dad will sort it pretty quickly for you' to which D14 replied 'I doubt it they have no money'
If you remember I sent XH an email reminding him that legally he had to tell me where my S17 is living. He chose to ignore that email and so I had to ask S17 himself.
'The script' is a very apt phrase. Did you ever read the book of the same title? Very interesting
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15