BS, you can be there for him on the end of the phone. But tread carefully.
Supporting him in his time of need is not about DBing or getting your M back, it's about one human being understanding the needs and pain of another. Plain and simple.
I wish my W thought the same way you do when my mother passed away. Please don't do what she did and abandon your H at this time (and I don't think you would). Some things are just more important.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
