"yeah, I've started to think about it, I mean I would love for us to be together again but if you don't want to, I need to start to think about moving on. I just am nervous about introducing son to another man you know. Hmm *sigh*"
"well just so you know I am still against divorce and I would love to have a marriage with you again but I can only express my wishes- you have your own decisions to make. I have been doing a lot of thinking about things as of late though (leave it vague, maybe)
That just sounds like pursuing.
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"people keep telling me I should start dating, I'm not sure yet. I just worry about finding a guy who would love our son as a father should. I mean it's not just about what I would like in a guy, I have to make sure he would be a good father."
That sounds good though.
If the OW is pressuring H then I would steer clear of anything that looks like pressure from your sure. If you give her enough rope, maybe she will hang herself ... metaphorically speaking of course ... ahem.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
