I won't pick him up or anything - we have only one car and he can't rent one either - he has his full license less then a year - he is 40 minutes away in his paremts house - let's see what he comes up with.
I won't pick him up or anything - we have only one car and he can't rent one either - he has his full license less then a year - he is 40 minutes away in his paremts house - let's see what he comes up with.
Exactly. Maybe he can SHOW YOU how much he wants to see the kids. Actions speak louder than words.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
You can change your softness by these kinds of actions! Good, see if he can get himself to your house. AND VERY SMART to leave your laptop! What date is Stephen's Day? What do you do on that day?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
It's the 26th of december - last year WAH went out with his family and I took the kids home as we had nobody to take care of the kids - he stayed overnight in his parents house - I think this year it's my turn.
My friend wants to get me locked a pub crawl so to speak
another action to firm yourself up! good job bestrong!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
WAH and myself were just in the middle of texting about x-mas presents when she called him - he texted me to tell me - I called him back - he sounded so down - he said a perfect ending to a sh*t year.I told him to call me if he wants to talk.
God I hate this - I so wish I could be there for him right now
BS, you can be there for him on the end of the phone. But tread carefully.
Supporting him in his time of need is not about DBing or getting your M back, it's about one human being understanding the needs and pain of another. Plain and simple.
I wish my W thought the same way you do when my mother passed away. Please don't do what she did and abandon your H at this time (and I don't think you would). Some things are just more important.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
a pub crawl so to speak