I was just dropping something off in my car, and going into another store. So I walked over and grabbed a shopping cart about 10 feet from OW's car, looked at them, waved, and walked on into the store. When I came back out, the OW car was still there, but they weren't in it.
Excellent. Liked the waving part in particular.
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Today I get message from WAS about scheduling dates for mediation,
What sort of mediation is this?
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and she would like to "talk about seeing you last night. It was awkward and I hate that."
Why does she need to talk? If she feels awkward then surely that's something for her conscience to deal with? Maybe I misunderstand that bit.
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This has my guts all in a twist, although I don't think I did anything wrong. I am not going to avoid an entire town because they are there. Maybe I should have ignored them.
Why the hell should you. Wait a minute Arwen, you haven't done anything so why are you feeling guilty?
You are getting on with your life. You are acknowledging that she exists. You waved. Big deal. If she get's all upset at you for waving, boo hoo.
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Suggestions on what to say when we talk?
It' her that needs to talk. I'd listen, validate and that's it. I wouldn't say much.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
