Thanks Hope4us, I do realize it probably will be a longer process than I want it to be. the A lasted about 8 months, so realistically I know there is still a long road to go. H is starting his own IC now, and so far has found it very helpful. H is talking with me about what he is learning in his own journey, and I can tell he knows he has a long road too. My C did also say I have to go at H's pace... I know she is right, I know you are right. And, it does suck. But, it is the reality. I get why it is that way. Thanks for sharing more about your M and reconciliation process. It does give me hope.
