P - the WA's always pull the control card. You are just being a good H looking after your wife and her drug abuse - that is not controlling.

It's ok we all mess up and use the R word (I've done it a couple times when I know damn well not to)

If she is wavering on coming home you MUST be working on you. Make her WANT to come home to you. No R talk - don't do it.


M44 H41
M20 T23
3 older teens
Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy"
EA Nov 09 w/coworker
Another PA in Mar 10
I Filed Apr 10
D final Dec 10