Hi (((((Luv))))) I truly don't know what I would have done without this forum the last few months. I don't know what your H is up to, but one thing I found out the hard way is that my "gut" was right... every time. If there is any way you can get some proof, it will help. But, in the meantime, you need to try to not be so reactive. I know I am asking the impossible. How can you not be angry when you are being treated like sh*& by your H? I know. But... it gives him "validation" that you are "crazy". Try to calmly plan out your next steps. Back off, don't respond to his text. Hopefully Puppy can give you some ideas for gathering some proof. In the meantime, figure out what your boundaries are, communicate and enforce them, then "act as if". Let him worry and stew about what you may know or not know. You are strong. You are going to be ok! We are here for you....
