Friday. Starting to get nervous. I would like to do a lot of errands this week, car tag, car maintenance stuff, shop for work clothes, etc. X had switched the ordered biweekly child support/alimony checks to the 1st and 15th of the month a year or so ago, and every time threatens to change it back, like this week not give it to me until this Friday, after I have told him of my need for the check this week. I'm not supposed to take off the first 2 or 3 months of training, and even after that don't want to take much time off as I'm probationary the first year. You would think he'd try to be supportive of this as he will be getting much lowered child support and alimony. He's such a (insert most evil word you can think of here).

Since he agreed to not pick up the kids tonight (he's going to have them Thursday night b/c S16 has a late final Friday), he said he was intending to give me tonight. I have to pick it up tomorrow am at his apt. or he says he will mail it (the check he supposedly mailed 2 weeks ago has never come in). I forwarded the email to my L and asked her to make sure that after the D, his wages are garnished, so less to have to deal with the flake....


Me 53
D18, S24