I can endure, neutralize and even combat all her other emotions but when it comes to hate I am clueless. If you have any ideas on how to neutralize it let me know.
I have some experience here. During my M breakdown, when H wasn't speaking to me, vice versa, I was feeling a LOT of resentment. So when he did try to engage me, I was acting very neutral and even-toned and he kept coming back in an accusatory/mean fashion with everything he was saying. I know he was prob going out of his mind because I had stopped reacting to him and this was new for him so he was all out of sorts in how to respond to me.
So if she is being crazy toward you, DO NOT come back with your own CRAZY. Try to remain calm and speak to her in an even tone. If you come back hissing or rude in any way, shape or form, it is going to push her away, without a doubt.
Did you find out anything about the voice recordings?
