He then apologized..." Sorry for being such a jerk the last few days. It is just this bipolarness I have in me."
What? You actually admitted to having the characteristics of someone with bipolar disorder? Crazy! I didn't know what to say! He actually admitted his wrong behavior! He has apologized before for being a jerk, but that was it. No mention that it may be a "problem" with him....just that he may have been acting like a jerk.
Has he actually been diagnosed as bipolar, or is he just describing his behavior in that fashion?
I'd file it away and think about making it a condition of working things out; that he get evaluated.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement