Ignore him like the bratty little three year old tantruming on the floor like he is acting like. If you cave now and respond to his antics he's wins back power.

Think of it this way. Ignoring him actually the best way to ruffle his feathers. He can't spin tales of how horrible you are and bother him so. You have left him completely alone. Now who does he have to blame and project onto?

M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)