That's what I am thinking...I know my approach is cake eating (without the icing) but I just now got a compliment about my cooking...I am surfing the net and WH is looking at the paper and he casually says "it's pretty cool that you are doing all kinds of cooking. It's really good, too. You didn't do that before." I just said "yeah, I am at home and I wanted to try to be a good cook...so I am going for it!" and he said "yeah, I guess you were working before so that can make it hard." I told him "I guess you cooked more! Thank you for that."
He IS noticing my changes!
And then he changed the subject about some expensive Northface fleece...
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004