here we go again

[TrentC]

i am trying to keep my ultimate goal in mind of reconciling and know if he did show up unnounced and i had to call the police it would have more of a negative impact then anything.

No way. Once the issue of abuse or domestic violence comes up, the rules change. Priority number one is protecting yourself and D2.

question is do i fear my safety or child's, not sure, there has been issues of dom violence in past and he can blow at any second with anger.

Then the answer is yes, you should fear for your and D2's safety.