dday101798: You are on the right track, but a bit to the extreme in nature. I hear you dday. And yes, its going to be extreme because I've become extremely frustrated.
- 180's have not worked. - Patience and understanding have not worked. - Communication has not worked. - Love languages have been met with below mediocre results. - Getting busy with my life has not worked. - Going dark has not worked. - Going dark / NC near the beginning did not work.
So... it's time to change and use the only last resort I have.
And to this, all I can say is your missing the principle, these are FOR YOU, not your W. capiche?
Si, Si. Don Dday.
Originally Posted By: dday101798
This further facilitates my statement. I know it's a hard lesson to learn, and took me a damn long time myself, even after the D, but you need to learn it.
Dude, I get it, got it, BTDT etc.. That clicked in some time ago.