I did talk to the priest a while back. Not a lot of help there, basically his advice was pray for an answer and focus on the things that you like about her. MrsGGB is in IC with a MFLT who I find to be a little flakey. We've gone to joint sessions as well, and I've gone and seen her twice on my own. If anything, the counseling is making things worse, not better. We also did Marriage Encounter about 5 years ago, and I thought we were making some headway. The sharing feelings bothered MrsGGB and she won't do their dialog thing any more. I'll probably sign us up for Retroville this spring, knowing that she still may not participate fully.