I was also thinking about you saying you are only going to have one child. What would he say if you were thinking of having another - obviously with somebody else?
It would not be fair to my son if I had another child with someone else. If we D, I would get my son half the time and then the next child would get to be with me full time. I can't do it!
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Your H, to me, just seems to be normalising and having his cake etc. He is still with OW and I think until he is forced to choose, you will be like this from now until the end of time.
Yes, normalizing is right. But I won't be doing this until the end of time!
He is over here today and just asked me if my SIL knows about Saturday night. We weren't even talking about it- he was thinking about me going out, I guess. I wonder if he remembers tomorrow night?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
