oh, G, who was the WAS and LBS? for some reason I'm recalling you were actually the WAS.
Mind, I agree with not doing ML...yet. I do remember doing that a couple times and I wished I hadn't gone that far, but because he was still in contact with the OW. If your H truly doesn't have an OW, and I agree with G on that too, then IMHO, I think if it really goes that far, well, Michelle does tell us that is a good thing...unless the sitch becomes stagnated, but I think what G said will have the best impact.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."