thanks G. just wanted to understand what path you don't want them to go on, and didn't want you to have to go thru your whole sitch for me to understand. it's okay if it's too much to explain. maybe sometime I will get the chance to go to your thread.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."