Calling out the Piecers

[Hope4us]

Dday, Slow down. It's only been a couple weeks since you and your W decided to try to make this work. Recovering your marriage is HARD and takes a LONG TIME. Most accounts I've read say if you think you've recovered in less than 2 years, you're fooling yourself.

So your wife is making some sexual comments that make you uncomfortable given the circumstances? Been there, done that. Talk to her about it. Tell her that you realize she was just trying to be funny but given what's gone on, it's going to take you a little longer until you're ready to have that kind of banter with her.

Discuss the things you've heard "around town" with her. And if some of them are true and they're deal breakers for you, then you'll know.

I have to run, but just wanted to comment.