here we go again

[Jstar]

i don't think he does understand why his mother was a poor care giver that is his mommie and he's still attached to her breast for milk at 29.

i don't know if i should respond to him giving me a threat.

i have gone through 5 different ways to respond and i'm trying to keep my anger under control. i am trying to keep my ultimate goal in mind of reconciling and know if he did show up unnounced and i had to call the police it would have more of a negative impact then anything.

question is do i fear my safety or child's, not sure, there has been issues of dom violence in past and he can blow at any second with anger.

it would not be in the best interest for d2 to have him just show up, it would be very confusing to here, jeez it's confusing to me.

i believe that he may want a part in her life but i don't think that significant or regular, he does not like to go by a schedule and always has to be at his mommie's and daddies beck and call to do their bidding for them and he would put his d2 after them, he has and still does.