I text him a text and asked him if he was ever going to bother with my son that he raised last night since Christmas was coming and it would be a great time for them to get back together (their relationship). I was nice about it and explained that he is hurting terrible that he is not included and feels abandoned by him. See my son's father hasn't seen or bothered with him since he was 4yrs. old. So my H has raised him and always included him as his own until the separation. But I didn't get an answer. My girlfriend said for me just to forget it and hope and pray my son can get through this and that he is never coming back and wants nothing to do with my son. I just don't get how someone can do this to a child. My son is 19yrs. old but is special needs and has the mentality of a 10yr. old so he is really going through a rough time with this and doesn't understand. My friend said I got my answer by H not answering he wants nothing to do with my S anymore.