There is nothing earth shatteringly wrong about an adult staying up all night once in a while.
"Truth be told, I have briefly chatted with this woman maybe 4 times on FB since my wife scared her off. So, it's not really about this OW. It's about control."
This is rather childish, no? If you have no interest in saving your M, why post here? If you are interested in saving your M, then why would you insist on stringing along some woman who is interested in inappropriate chat with a married man in order to hurt your W?
