I thought that's what every woman wants , a stable, honest, reliable ,goodlooking ,professional man , who likes to have fun.??
Let me make something very plain here. Taking a woman out and allowing somebody/something else to entertain her is not what I am referring to here. It is YOU, the PERSON, who she finds boring. She's tired and doesn't want to go out every night, but you have either grown lazy or else do not have enough imagination as to how to spark up your life at home.
Yes, you need to GAL, but you need to show her that it is really great being in your company. Think of one thing......an evening at home that would completely surprise her. Something that you have never done before. Now by fun, I'm not suggesting you make yourself look like a idiot, but you can be sexy and still be fun.
Let me tell you something I did one time. We lived in a small apartment at the time, so I redecorated the front room by putting red scarves over the lampshades and threw huge pillows around on the floor. I had a blanket in the middle of the floor. I had dinner already cooked when he arrived. I was wearing shorts & a halter top and high heels (which was out of character for me, but that's what was fun). I was standing in this "model" poise when he came in the door. I thought he was going to faint when he walked in (lol). We ate our food on the blanket like we were at a picnic and I had bought this little cheap gift and had "to the greatest husband" on it. Of course, we ended up ML on the blanket.
But it was a highlight for him. Made coming home fun and unpredictable. It was fun for me, too, b/c I was doing the planning and it was a seret surprise.
Go on the Internet and type in things to spark up my love life.....or something else. Buy "Light Up Her Life", but do something that involves applying yourself to the R instead of depending on somebody else.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
