Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

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Should I flirt?

I would say yes. What have you to lose. But you have to do it right. Flirt like a tease and not like you want him, if you see what I mean. It's a careful line though. I'd watch carefully to see how he responds.

Isn't it possible that WH is just thinking I am completely fine with "being friends" if we divorce because I am acting so nice?
Or do you think he remembers that I told him that I did not want the divorce?

Your H, to me, just seems to be normalising and having his cake etc. He is still with OW and I think until he is forced to choose, you will be like this from now until the end of time.

I was also thinking about you saying you are only going to have one child. What would he say if you were thinking of having another - obviously with somebody else?

My thinking there is that he has a tie over you and has something that no other man will ever have with you - a child. He's marked his territory (you) in that respect. If you sow the seed of doubt that another man may mark his territory too, I wonder what would happen.

Tread carefully with this though. Sow the seed very very slowly otherwise he will see what you are doing.