kids seem pretty happy.. they have alot of anger at W though and keep talking about not even wanting to see her anymore D8 even asked why they have to see W! and they keep saying mean things to W. I try my best to tell them they can love W and they dont need to be mad at her..
I would let W deal with this. Be a father and keep telling them that they shouldn't say things like that about their mother, however she HAS to deal with this. she HAS to talk to them. She HAS to explain it to them. Not YOU. HER.
Actions = Consequences
She left. She screwed them around. She has to deal with the fallout.
You've got enough on your plate. Don't add this to the pile when it's not yours to own.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
