The adventure chronicles

[AFWAW]

Yeah, I tried this yesterday. She actually called me and started on about the OW on facebook again and was crying and said she was going to start dating because someone at work asked if they could set her up with a friend. I said, ok, go ahead, I don't know why you're telling me know, you did what you wanted to before without telling me. Have a good time. She said, no, I don't want to but I'm tired of being alone. I then asked her what she wanted. She said, she wanted to come home and to be my wife. I told her I didn't see any move on her part to make this happen by the way she was acting. She then started flipping everything around to what I've done. I listened and then told her that if she wanted to we could go out to lunch on Thursday. She said, only if I took that OW off facebook. I asked her how that would change things? She said she didn't know but that we were not going to happen unless that happened. I said, Ok, I guess I'll talk to you later.

She called back about an hour later in tears and said I haven't gotten a friend request on FB. Is the OW still on there? I said yes. She said, you must love her very much. At this point, I hung up.

Truth be told, I have briefly chatted with this woman maybe 4 times on FB since my wife scared her off. So, it's not really about this OW. It's about control.

Another thing, my wife told me that she stayed out till 830 in the morning the night of her Christmas party. I didn't ask, but WTF? Is this the kind of behavior that is acceptable? What kind of role model is she being for my daughter?