I don't know why I waited this long to do this, but I reached out to OM's GF today to try to contact her to tell her everything I knew about OM and W's relationship. She hasn't responded yet.
I think I never took this step out of fear WAW and I was trying to 'ignore' OM but in reality I couldn't. Also, OM claimed that he was just living with her and that they didn't have a R (but they have a kid together). I never believed this, but when I told W I was considering exposing the EA to OM GF she said 'why would you do that - they aren't together'.
I guess I will find out for real if she returns my message! At this point I have nothing to lose and it just might make this guy avoid doing this with someone else's W.
Last edited by tryingtilDorR; 12/15/0907:38 AM.
ME/XW:47 S21, D19, S15, S14 M:21 T:26 W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12 W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline
