And yes, its going to be extreme because I've become extremely frustrated.
- 180's have not worked. - Patience and understanding have not worked. - Communication has not worked. - Love languages have been met with below mediocre results. - Getting busy with my life has not worked. - Going dark has not worked. - Going dark / NC near the beginning did not work.
You are having an off week. Take it easy. I know it's easier said than done. You and your W are still living together. There's no sight of OM. Your W wants to stay with you, but there's something that's holding her back. You will figure it out. Could be something MLC'ish, unfulfilled dreams, career aspirations, etc.
Just to give you another perspective.
Regarding your list above, your W is reacting to your efforts. Don't dismiss them as not working.
