First time poster feeling a bit lost

[MT21]

So this is where were at,

Shes pleasant and we are very civil to one another, still doing all the things that M couples do, eat together, watch TV etc...

But no bedroom stuff, I did get a couple of hugs.

I am still planning on GAL, still working on myself, but becuase shes in the same house I just dont see how I can be slightly unpleasant.(Formal)

I wonder if being nice is counterproductive and then she wins, i.e. gets her friend but can go elsewhere for her lover..Still no evidence here.

or she will see how good I am and start to turn on a few of the old sparks...especially if I try to romance her..nothing heavy just lots of small thoughtful things. You know shes not a spiteful person, and I find it difficult to be anything other than loving. Something I probably havent done in a long time.(on reflection)

MT