do you think he's testing you? YOur last conversations with him, how did it go? arguments?

you need to use the db strategies with his text msg.

it' s like him saying, hi, but don't respond i'm busy, so you are busy as well, give no response or wait a long time to respond. are you dark?

Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline