I can take it no more soldiers wife need help

[armywifevampi]

no the one i have closes to me it 2hrs away

[Jstar]

he should be getting paid family seperation for being away on an unacompanied tour, and some other things.

you gotta get on a post and get things rolling.

[Jstar]

if you get totally stuck the red cross can help as well.

[bluerain]

Any other bases? You can use that ID to get on another kind of base, Coast Guard, Air Force, Navy, any of them.

You should be able to contact the base that is closest to you for some resources.

http://yongsan.korea.army.mil/chaplain.asp

This is a link to a base in korea, I have no idea if its the one that hes at, I think that if you just google Army bases in South Korea you should be able to find the right one. Regardless, if you reach out to the Chaplain services at any base, Im almost positive that they will not turn you away, even if they cant halp you, Im sure that they will figure out how to put you in touch with the correct people. Even if you just google'd the post nearest you, you could probably pretty easily find the contact info for the right people.

If all else fails, walk down to the nearest church to you and ask to speak with the pastor. These people may not be licensed therapists, but I can almost guarantee you that they have experience dealing with this kind of thing.

[armywifevampi]

he just text me with hey im at work busy bye ... what would that be about

[armywifevampi]

yes hes there

[armywifevampi]

how can i get on a post if they never gave him one

[bluerain]

Did you text him? Or contact him at all? I guess hes feeling a little guilty?

What do you think that you could do to make yourself feel a little more in control of whats going on? Im not talking about anything involving him, Im talking about something that will make you feel like you have some influence over where things are going?

[bluerain]

It doesnt have to be his post. As long as you have that ID, you can get onto any base. Head for the church, or health clinic and speak with the chaplain.

[Jstar]

do you think he's testing you? YOur last conversations with him, how did it go? arguments?

you need to use the db strategies with his text msg.

it' s like him saying, hi, but don't respond i'm busy, so you are busy as well, give no response or wait a long time to respond. are you dark?