you can find out how much he makes, just start with the chaplain, you can tell him about your surgery, pay, marraige problems and let them help you.

you gotta let them know though, that's what they are there for.

Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline