Originally Posted By: pearlharbr
Maple, since H has taken the kids' papers I suggest that you still retain a L now. You don't have to go through with a D or even file for that matter, but you should take the steps to protect yourself as obviously H has already started down that road. You have already underestimated him, don't continue to make the same mistake.


I have an appt set up for Thurs. Got someone to give me a recommendation as I just didn't want to pick one randomly from white pages.

H wanted copies of my 2007 bank stmts. I only had '08-'09 on file at home.
I went on mat leave in 2007, quit my job in 2008 to be SAHM.
Any idea what he is looking for?

I am trying to write down how I feel but I just can't seem to get the words out.
I am just so.... so..... it was hard today.

And H moved all his stuff to downstairs bedroom tonight.


Me: 42, H: 43
Daughters: 7,5
Together: 16 Married: 9
Jan 2010- Piecing
Fen 2013 ????