no R talk on your part, let her pursue you, you had some momentum going your way, listen to the advice we're giving you, stop pursuing, stop the R talk, let her mention if the R was good or not, let her defend your relationship, why are you offering R talk?
She is testing you, can't you see this, she's seeing if you're easy or not, she is seeing if you're still conquered or not, tame that inner wuss inside you, stuff him back inside, the masculine you came out and dictated the direction and she responded to it, didn't she? Unless all of what you wrote was bull$hit?!
Keep doing what works! Stop doing what doesn't work!
Ask her about those d papers again and act like you don't care and don't pay any attention to her like you had been doing, that is what got you results.
Let her defend your marriage, let her work hard for it!