Tonight, I made Bobby Flay's grilled chicken phad thai and potstickers again. he liked it and cleaned up after. We chatted about little stuff like groceries and our baby's eating habits. He mentioned something on the news. I worked out. He did joke with me about "only child" comments...We (I) are/am only choosing to have one child. I get lots of crap from people.

I was telling him how I told the Bunco group that I (did not say "we") am only having one child. I told him the things they said (he'll be miserable, lonely, spoiled, unhappy,etc.) I told him someone gave me a comment to use: "If you have one child, you are a parent. If you have 2 or more, you are a referee."

He said just to tell them that I'm having one child so I can spoil him and raise him to be lonely. (har har) My old WH!

So other than that, rather quiet. Is it good that I say "I" instead of "we" when talking about stuff? I am doing it more and more. He still says "we" a lot. Sigh.

Last edited by newmama; 12/15/09 04:43 AM.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004