Let me say this, my h took my credit card i had years prior to R and marriage. he just about maxed it out even after i paid his truck payment for 3 months. i did not find out for a few months he stole it from me and spent it on gas and phone bills.

i reported him to the credit card company for fraud, on the advice of everyone here. HE STOLE from me and in essance that is what your h could be doing.

Recruiting officer is not the person to speak to, get involved with his chain of command, what he is doing is wrong and he chose to not own up to his dependents.

you have his social security number, can find him anyway in the miltary with that, you have his name.

Please do it to protect your family.

Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline