Matilda, This seems like a turning point for a new thread. My W has mentioned to me that spending time with her dance friend has been eye-opening for her. He reminded her of the person she doesn't want to be or become. She got to be the recipient of bad behavior--blaming, temper tantrums, self-centeredness.
I still journal in the mornings, but I admit that dancing is what consumes my thoughts 24/7. I'm either viewing class recordings, practicing technique in front of the mirror, or going to a venue/lesson alone or with my W. I think it's fair to say that I'm doing something dance related every day.
I signed-up for my own dance lesson package, which includes five private lessons and an assortment of group lessons and workshops. I've never spent money for private lessons before on myself. Since it's my dime, I can determine how I want the time to be spent, and personalize it to meet my needs.
My W is talking about putting us in a $50/night guest house, which would involve sharing a bathroom. As I've said, she's become conscious about her spending. She's funding the trip, so I'll try to be adventurous, and let her call the shots. I don't want her fretting about money. It might be fun venturing away from the mainstream hotels. I'm going to need to keep my translation book close by.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
