No, his parents don't know about his A. They just like to meddle in my life, marriage, child-rearing, anything they can. My H can't stand his family; they only talk to me at all because of the kids. I don't want to tell them about his A - they'll just heckle me.

I just want to tell them not to poke their noses in our marriage at all. I have let them push me around and held my tongue when I should have spoken up for most of five years. I think I need to stop letting my husband do my talking for me.

They don't really get "polite" or "subtle" in the least. I'm going to have to be blunt.

undefeated 24
H 24
S's 4, 2, 1
M 5 yrs

"Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all." ~Dale Carnegie